Then! I'll think about it too! It's an ongoing negotiation.

(he doesn't even feel the tug. his hair is definitely long, some curls and waves giving it the fluffy shape and texture as it looks - and well, it's always messy, so he doesn't mind it.

his own experience is obvious. hers, not so much.)

Yep. It's scary, don't you think? Why would anyone not want to come near you?